In memory of

Laura Michaels Davis

Sep 6, 1963
Feb 2, 2024

Obituary

Laura Michaels Davis was a woman with many lifetimes, and her current one came to an end on February 2nd, 2024, after a 2-year fight with brain cancer. She was surrounded by her chosen family at her home in Salem, Oregon.

She was born September 6th, 1963, in Portland, Oregon, and given the name Lauren Michael Davis. She was the 5th and youngest child, born a little boy, 9 pounds, 14oz, and 23 inches long.  

Laura had what she considered to be an all-American boyhood. She rode bikes, climbed trees, played baseball, had a paper route, learned her way around cars and trucks. She attended Saint Therese Elementary and claimed the title of the fastest 14-year-old BMX racer! Next, she attended Central Catholic High School and dedicated time to football, track, and weightlifting. She graduated Class of 1981.

Laura was lucky enough to marry her high school sweetheart, Terri Straight, in 1985 and spent 22 years raising a family together. Laura was an extremely proud father to two daughters. One of her proudest accomplishments as a father was getting her eldest daughter through a battle with leukemia in 2001. She recounted this as the most transformative and inspirational time of her life. In 2002, she started training in taekwondo where she received 2 black belts and became an instructor at Choi's TKD Academy. Her experience in taekwondo led her to massage school where she became licensed in 2008, although she never worked in the field. This time coincided with her divorce, and she spent the following years putting time into her original career, transportation for Pepsi. A strong work ethic is something she had nurtured her entire life. Her first job at age 10 was a paper route, where she delivered the morning paper on her bicycle. In high school, she worked at the Minute Mart and at an egg company, loading eggs into trucks. She attended PCC diesel school in 1981 and started her career as a truck driver. Laura started in 1983 loading trucks for Interstate. In 1986, she moved to Wymore, then back to Interstate before landing with Pepsi in 1999. For Pepsi, she drove trucks until 2015 where she moved to Mt Angel and was able to work in the beverage canning factory. She continued working there until her forced medical retirement in 2022. She said getting out of the truck and into the factory was a time to truly become herself. She finally had control of her work hours and environment and was able to explore her gender and pursue her interests.

Laura was the life of any party and loved to go out socializing. She spent so many weekends at gay bars in Portland and Salem and still proudly kept her 34 years of sobriety. She enjoyed singing karaoke and dancing, and everyone loved to sing and dance with her! Many of her friends can tell of a time where she would share inspiration and an understanding ear in the smoking section of the establishment. Being in her light was such a magical feeling, and friends flocked to her and her positive attitude. Her weekends in these beautifully queer spaces are where she was able to build connections with her community and the self-confidence in herself to come out as a proud transgender woman. In 2019 she was able to step fully into the light of herself and proclaim - "This is me! I am Laura!" and was met with acceptance.

It came as a shock in January 2022 when she was diagnosed with brain cancer, glioblastoma multiforme. In true Laura fashion, this only strengthened her resolve to live life as large as possible. She focused her efforts on her relationships with her older sister, Teresa, her eldest daughter, Kristi, her long-term partner, Snarfy, and her group of friends and chosen family in Salem. Laura was able to travel extensively locally, including many trips to the coast and central Oregon, and up into Washington. She visited the redwoods in California, New York City to visit cousins and ride bikes in Central Park, Sedona, AZ, as a gift from the Dream Foundation, and attended the NHRA drag races in Pomona, CA. At the time of her passing, she was planning a final trip to Thailand, which her sister and daughter will take in her honor.

Laura inspired everyone until her very last moment, and everyone who knows her will carry her memory in their hearts forever.

Her memorial will be held at Pringle Hall in Salem, OR, on Saturday, March 2nd, from 2-4 pm.

Service Information

Memorial Service
Saturday, March 2nd, 2024 2-4pm
Pringle Hall
606 Church St SE, Salem, OR 97301

Messages of Sympathy

  1. Max says:

    I wrote you a postcard tonight to tell you how sorry I am that I was too scared to text you these last few months because I was afraid you wouldn't be there. I'm so so very sorry that I was too late. Though our contact could be sporatic, you were always close to my heart. It was an honor to have you as my best lady and see you blossom into the person I always saw you as. I hope you got to become a naughty ghost.

    Sending comfort to everyone who loved her. There were so many.

  2. Snarfy says:

    If anyone doesn't like the obituary that Laura and I wrote together, feel free to write and publish your own. Seek therapy and good luck.

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