In memory of

Robert Morris Decker

Jul 15, 1937
Dec 30, 2021


On December 30, 2021, Robert Morris Decker passed away due to complications during surgery.  Robert (Bob) was born on July 15, 1937, in Salt Lake City, Utah to Clyde Morris and Terese (Roberts) Decker.  His father died when he was just seven years old, so he grew up with his mother in Centerville, Utah and graduated in 1955 from Davis High School.  He married his high school sweetheart, Kathryn (Kathy) Barber, in 1959 in the Logan, Utah temple of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and they were married for 62 years.  They raised four children together.

Bob graduated with a Masters degree from the University of Utah in Salt Lake City in 1967 while working as the Recreation Director at the Utah State Training School in American Fork.  This was the beginning of many years of working with and for the physically and developmentally disabled. In 1970 he became Director of the Idaho Child Development Center in Idaho Falls, Idaho.  He also served in many capacities for the state Department of Health and Welfare in Idaho.  In 1974 he became administrator of the Idaho State School and Hospital in Nampa. In 1979 Bob moved his family to Salem, Oregon where he served as vice president of operations for Truscan Corporation which owned and operated skilled nursing facilities and intermediate-care facilities for the developmentally disabled throughout the western United States.  In 1980 he and co-worker, Don Bybee, formed Chartham Management.  The company eventually operated 41 long-term care facilities in seven western states.  In 1987 he formed his own company, Westcare Management, which also owns and operates health care facilities.  He retired at the age of 80 and the company is now in the care of two of his sons.  

During his career Bob served as a consultant to a variety of health care organizations and was often sought after as a speaker nationwide. He served as president of the Oregon Healthcare Association and on many boards for ICF/MR facilities for the American Health Care Association.  He did consulting and conducted numerous seminars throughout the United States and helped develop many programs to improve the care and quality of life for the developmentally disabled.

He enjoyed serving in many capacities in his church–particularly teaching the young people and adults in Sunday School.  Known for his selfless generosity, he derived great satisfaction from being able to make a difference in people’s lives by helping them in any way that he could. He also delighted in making others smile or laugh with his upbeat sense of humor. But the greatest joy of his life was his family.  He loved his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren immensely and was proud of every one of them.  Loved and respected by so many, he will be greatly missed. 

Bob is survived by his wife, Kathryn, and their four children: Todd (Jeanette) Decker, Tamra (Rex) Christensen, Tony (Pam) Decker, and Bryan (Ricki) Decker. He had 17 grandchildren and 12 great grandchildren. He also claimed as his own, Donna (Moses) Soria and her family and Todd (Gail) Kelly.

Private family funeral services will be held on January 15, 2022, but will be broadcast for all others.  You may find details and broadcast link here.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to ARC of Oregon, Oregon Special Olympics, or University of Utah department of Health

Service Information

Funeral Service - Private Family Only
Saturday January 15th, 2022 11:00 AM
All Non family members are invited 
to join remotely at this link:
Passcode: 355831 program for service is located in the photo gallery.

~Robert will be laid to rest at Belcrest Cemetery~


Messages of Sympathy

  1. Linda Adams says:

    What a lovely man Bob was. His dedication and passion for those in need of quality of care was a wonderful contribution to many. I am honored to have known him and to have had him as my friend. Sincere Sympathies.

  2. Debby and Bruce Johnson says:

    When I think of Bob, I remember his smile and wit. What a kind man and wonderful example. We are honored to be counted among his friends. RIP, dear man.

  3. Elyse Tipton says:

    Beautiful service and a fitting tribute to a truly remarkable man. Love, Elyse, Paul and Amanda

  4. Donna Rittenhouse Soria says:

    My Second Father (church Dad). How can I even try to express my gratitude to him and Kathy. It's like trying to say, thank you to Jesus for all what he has done for us.
    He has always been there for me through these years from when I was 17 or 18, he opened up his home to take me in.
    He was a very giving person never expecting anything in return. I know more will be added to him in Heaven.
    Him and Kathy have a unique love for each other just like about a month ago they were laughing like high school kids, so cute.
    He is already greatly missed, and loved.
    Like I have told both of them they are what I think our Heavenly Parents are like.
    I love and miss you greatly.
    Deepest sympathy to all the family. Till we meet again. ❤️

  5. Viegas family says:

    When I think of Bob I think of kindness, love and so much more. Words cannot explain how special he was to my family. Thank you for always supporting us. Holiday parties will never be the same.
    Lisa, Taylor & Parker Viegas

  6. Becky Clawson says:

    When I think of my parents and Salem, memories of the Deckers aren’t far behind. I’m sure my mom would like to say that Bob was an incredible Quidnunc, a Ferd to my Richard’s Fritz, (or was it the other way around), a dinner group groupie, an advisor, and dear dear friend. He leaves an unmatched legacy of kindness and service and will be deeply missed. All our love goes out to your family, but especially from Evonne to Kathy.

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