In Memory of

Kevin Robert Bontrager

March 29, 1993–October 28, 2020

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About Kevin Robert Bontrager

Kevin Robert Bontrager of Salem, OR  died Oct. 28, 2020.  He was 27.  Kevin was born March 29, 1993 in Harrisonburg, VA to Robert and Beth (Gerig) Bontrager. An outdoor gathering was held Nov. 1 for friends and family in Kevin’s hometown of Corvallis, OR.

Kevin graduated from Western Mennonite High School (Salem, OR) in 2011.  He  joined a group of peers for a gap year program called Outtatown before starting college.  During that formative year Kevin did a number of service projects throughout Canada and then traveled to South Africa for the remainder of the program. A highlight was meeting Desmond Tutu and being served communion by him. 

In the Fall of 2012 Kevin attended Seattle Pacific University, completing two years before taking time off after his father, Bob, died in 2014.  More recently he attended Western Oregon University and had one year left for his undergrad degree.

Kevin had many passions; he was an excellent writer and musician, and pursued both in college. He enjoyed working at Broadway Coffee in Salem, at the Bike Peddler assembling bikes, and delivering for Steel Bridge Coffee. He loved making music with friends and composing original songs. Kevin also loved adventure.  In 2016 he and a friend traveled together for four months throughout Asia.  Kevin was kind, compassionate, and intentional. He valued his friendships greatly. 

Although Kevin had many gifts and talents, he struggled with depression and anxiety. He sought help but was unable to learn how to cope. Missing him deeply are his mother, Beth Bontrager (husband Tim Graber; Hurley, SD), brother Jesse (wife Betsy and children Felix and Abigail, Phoenix, AZ), sister Erin (Minneapolis, MN), and many extended family members.

Memorial gifts may be donated to NAMI: National Alliance on Mental Illness or AFSP: American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.